I will never make the same mistake. Ever.
This is where you are wrong. WE don’t want a perfect wife. We crave women who have their own lives and lead an independence existence. We do not want women who literally “drop everything” when we come into the picture. And i don’t mean to put you down, but maybe he got ”bored’ with your ”perfect wife’ status and he decided to cheat. Just remember something, WE cheat because you women are doing something wrong.
It was a mistake to be the ”perfect wife”.
I used to think that if I tirelessly endeavored to be the perfect wife, waiting on his hand and foot, never saying “no” to him in any circumstance he’d love me and be faithful to me. Our friends and family marvel again and again at my willing attentiveness to his every whim and need, even they told him what a lucky man he was, and how they hope he appreciates me. His co-workers say they wish their wives did half as much for them, showed them half the love, respect and attention I show him, they’d consider themselves blessed. They jokingly say they’d marry me in a heartbeat.
And still he lied to me, cheated on me, bullshit me. He has the perfect wife, and he still wanted or needed to turn to other women.
I will never fall in love again.